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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Thanks again for all the advice. I appreciate all the insights.

He's not moving in just because his lease is up. He's at my house more than half the week and we felt it didn't make sense to pay for a place he's not at for another year when we are trying to save $$ for other things. He could absolutely sign a new lease. I'm the one who wants a new/bigger house. Saving ourselves from a 2nd set of housing expenses in the DC area for another year would be huge.
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OP, please, I know it sounds like it makes sense, but none of this is a good reason to move in with someone.  If you want to save money, you should get a roommate.  It's VERY difficult, much more difficult to sever ties with someone when you live with them. It's a completely different dynamic.  If you have lived with anyone before, you know what I mean.  It's very different.  The only good reason to move in with someone is that you are 100% certain you want to be with them, nothing else.  Please don't do this if your reasons are what you wrote. [/quote]

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