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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Bottom line for me?  Borderline Personality Disorder.. whatever that means.  The easier to understand diagnosis for me was anxiety and depression.[/quote]

I'm the PP @9:16 and much of the anger in my post is the direct result of four miserable years entangled with someone who suffered BPD and refused to consider that any kind of help was in order.  She was remarkably effective at snowing therapists and was 1000% about making it out to be my issue.  I fled in terror at the end - anyone see Gone Girl? Yeah, no murder, but seriously afraid for what I'd be accused of.

I am so so so grateful we did not have children.

I'm with the PP saying that if the genders were swapped, we'd all be telling a woman to DTMFA already.   Being a woman or a SAHM is not an excuse to be abusive to people.  I'm sure being a SAHM is very very challenging work and should be treated with the same respect as any other full-time job.  Not everyone is cut out to do it, and that's OK too.  It still isn't an excuse to be abusive..that's a red-herring.  If you are depressed and anxious, that's your problem to solve.

[quote]Wishing you the best.[/quote]

You too, seriously: good on you for tackling this - that's awesome and super brave...admitting that you had an issue is brave as hell.

My ex-gf was not an evil person at all - not intentionally anyway - and I feel bad for her (well, more for the guy she roped after me).  [/quote]

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