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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This doesn't sound like a keeper to me -- and I say this as someone who doesn't think guys have to always spend a lot on dates, but his lack of consideration shows a lack of interest.

If he doesn't want to do dinner bc of expense or bc he's not sure whether he wants to spend 2 hrs with you, then there are ways around it that still show consideration. I feel like most guys would suggest drinks -- at either a 5 or 6 pm happy hr type thing or late night drinks say at 9 pm or later. That clearly suggests to you that both of you are on your own for dinner and you will be spending 60-90 min together without saying it.

To schedule drinks smack in the middle of dinner hour and to explicitly say "eat first," seems like he doesn't care what you think or how he comes across, it's about his own convenience. If he's driving down from Baltimore and can't do happy hr drinks, then he should have opted for 9 pm. But I guarantee you he's thinking to himself "ugh -- if I go out at 9, I'm not going to be done until 10:30 and then I have to drive back to Baltimore, let's just do 7 and get it over with."

Honestly if it were me, I'd try to figure out if he is saying this whole thing as a chore and that's why meeting late is out. Maybe that's not it -- it could easily be that once he gets together with you, he has a great time but in planning he may be feeling like "uh I don't want to be too bothered."[/quote]

He's making a proactive effort to spend time with her in the initial stages. If that isn't good enough for her because it upsets her comfort level, she can fuck herself.[/quote]

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