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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Mom can pump. Chikd should be with bit parents. Maybe it is around work schedules. [/quote] Have you ever had a newborn? They need stability, not to be shuttled around every day like objects.[/quote] Kids need two parents. Plenty of kids get shuffled to family members or other child care options. This is no different. I am assuming you are mom. [/quote] No I am not mom. But dad has proven to be useless when it comes to caring for the child so far, has been totally hands off, tries to engage a newborn in inappropriate ways at inappropriate times, has no idea how often to feed, how to swaddle, etc. He can change a diaper. That is about it. How is going to work 8 hours a day and take care of an infant who is up every two hours all night? Mom is on maternity leave; she is the best place for a newborn. This is usually the case, no? [/quote] The mom has made her bed, it is a lumpy bed but it is the bed she made. You can't date a loser, get pregnant, live in his house then all of a sudden go to court and expect the judge to save your sorry ass. All of a sudden he sucks?... But he was a good enough partner before, so much so you moved in with him and had his baby. The courts are not there to fix your big fat messes. [/quote] I am seriously tired of people like you. Not only are you unhelpful you are sanctimonious, smug and clueless. The mom may have made the bed, but the OP is actually asking what is in best interest of the child. Being shuffled every 12 hours is most likely not. Please just stop! You make me sick. [/quote]
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