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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]And now they have a kid together and need to find a way to get along. [/quote]

OP here.  Couldn't agree more.  He apparently dragged out every intimate detail she'd ever shared with him to paint her as unstable.  Had the military conduct a half-assed investigation painting his as a victim of emotional abuse.  Big tough military guy.  What a joke.  I've told her to try mediation but I doubt he will agree.

And people, just because tiny babies go to daycare doesn't mean that the most emotionally or physically healthy thing for either the ban or the parents.  Doesn't the court have a responsibility to do what is best for the child?  [/quote]

No, of course not. You are correct, and I'm sorry you're struggling with this awful situation. No one here can really understand unless they've been through this themselves. I've seen so many stupid comments on this thread.

Don't engage in battles about babies in daycare here. People here are projecting their own crap onto you.

No, the courts have NO responsibility for doing what's best for the child. They have a responsibility to interpret the existing laws, which are not necessarily the best thing for YOUR child. Please understand this. Lawyers don't do what's morally right, and neither do judges. They do what's LEGAL. They deal in generalizations: children need both parents (they don't take into account mothers who are mentally ill but manage to work - or fathers who are physically abusive but make sure they don't leave any marks).

Go to surviving infidelity.com and get some advice there from less naive people. And good luck. Stay strong.

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