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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Yes, it's ALWAYS the man's fault!  These men!  They NEVER do enough!  Always wanting to fuck!  Always wanting to drink beer and watch the game while we women are left to do all of the child rearing and cooking and cleaning.  So what if I don't want to hold hands or show simple affection!  He should be booking me massages, and rubbing my feet, and taking me on dates, and ...

I swear to God, it's NEVER ENOUGH for you women.  EVER.  If a woman posted this?  How terrible OP that your husband never holds your hand!  And never wants to keep his arms wrapped around you!  How starved you must be for affection! He should be [insert list of endless demands].  I'm telling you, it's LOSE-LOSE, OP.  You're a bad man for even feeling this way.  You're a selfish and entitled jerk.

Newsflash:  The OP wants to feel in love.  And it sounds like he's talked to DW about it and it goes nowhere.  You've got PLENTY OF COMPANY out there, OP.  You have three choices:  1 - Talk it out and hope things change, 2 - Find a way to come to terms with the rest of your bland, affectionless, unemotional existence, or 3 - Leave.

I vote #3.  But sadly, it will be #2, just like 90% of all "successful" marriages.

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Guess what?  Everyone wants to feel in love but sometimes when you have children thats more important because you have obligations to them to make their life a good one.  If it was a woman I would be screaming about her for the same thing.... if someone doesnt want to have sex with you, they have no obligation to!  That includes for marriage!  Sex is an act of love... love that is created by both parties.  If you are not getting love back from your partner considering what you are giving to the relationship and what you are doing to turn the other person off.  Or question if there is a medical reason and be supportive.  That's it!  Same goes for men or women![/quote]

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