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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What I don't understand is why you had to move your father in five days.  There is no way he didn't have months, if not years, of
Notice before he was foreclosed on.  Maybe your father is irresponsible and your brother doesn't really feel like changing his life/plans to help out.  Also, foreclosure & no savings sounds like someone who didn't downsize soon enough.  [/quote]
Exactly why a family meeting is in order to hash things out and not just accuse. Could find out that there is more to the story than you have right now. And personally, i would be pissed if you called and told me I owed you some money. I hope the allocation of funds and who can pay what was discussed and agreeed upon ahead of time. Personally, I don't like people deciding what my bills are going to be.  OP, you have a loooong road ahead, you might want to find out everything and come to a meeting of the minds before you get entrenched into believing you were totally wronged and are now a martyr.[/quote]

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