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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think there are a couple of problems here.  Yes, he is doing something physically healthy for physically healthy reasons.  That's great.  I can't fault him for that, technically.  [u]But in the process, he's shutting out his wife from the marriage they had before this, since it sounds like this is a recent change.  She's feeling lonely.  He's depriving her of time with him[/u], and it doesn't sound like they have much time together now as a couple.

The 5-year-old in the bed is a separate issue, but since I have the same issue myself, I can't really speak to it.  (my 5-year-old starts off in her own bed, but if she wakes up in the night, she'll come to mine.  Usually I sleep right through it.  I'm a single mom, though, so it's not affecting a marriage or sex life.)[/quote]

perhaps before there's a rush to throw the H under the bus, take moment to ask what OP is doing  that may be contributing to her being "shut out".  Perhaps her behavior is the cause? Perhaps she's not wanting or willing to meet him halfway?  Or maybe it's that she's depressed and doesn't know how to communicate or break out of the funk?[/quote]

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