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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]PP, here's the thing. You can justify your behavior by bringing up the ways in which you are wronged by your spouse, and you're right - you don't deserve to be treated that way. Your mistake is in your belief that it is better for your kids to have two parents who are married without affection, at least one of whom is intimately involved with someone else. If you need someone to talk to, consider a therapist. Turning a lover into a therapist is not fair and will also probably not help you actually sort out your issues. It only serves to further confuse you.

I say all of this as a person who is married to the man I left my husband for. You are going out of your way to complicate your own situation with your blame-casting and excuse-making. If your wife is uninterested in therapy, go on your own. [/quote]

Thank you for your feedback.  My AP has become my closest friend and we discuss and share a lot with each other.  More than the issues with our respective spouses.  I believe that we both provide the support that we have not been getting from our spouse. When I write "support"... It is support way beyond the "you would not believe what my spose did..."

Was your husband married when you got involved with him?[/quote]

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