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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Not to take his side here, but it sounds like you also played a significant role in things getting "physical".
Your explanation makes me picture him walking down the hall and you stepping into his path.  
So did you in any way "block" him? Because while that does not excuse his "push" (because that was wrong) but it would mean you too acted wrongly by taking the disagreement physical (you getting into his path).[/quote]

OP's explanation makes me picture a smaller hallway, such that with OP standing there the H would need to turn his body slightly to the side to get past her. From OP's description it sounds like, rather than do this, H chose to not only not turn his body but to purposely use his body to shove hers.

In describing this incident OP was careful to make clarifying statements so that no one would jump to thinking it was more than it was. This leads me to believe that if OP had contributed in any way to the occurrence she would have included that as well.

As for the PP who said his wife steps in front of him, well, that is not right, but neither would shoving that person to the side be right. As my parents used to say to us kids when we were arguing or fighting, " Two wrongs do not equal a right," i.e. answering wrong action with wrong action never improves things or brings resolution. Only kids or immature adults do this. [/quote]

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