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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]But what if it's not PPD?  What if I really do suck at being a mother and a wife and I'm taking it out on him?  That happens, doesn't it?[/quote]

No, you don't suck at being a wife an mother. I can tell you care. But could you try not to take it out on your husband? Can you vent to someone else?[/quote]

I guess that's why I'm venting here.  I really don't have anyone right now.  I don't vent to him much, but when I finally let it out, it's bad.[/quote]

What are you saying to him? Words are very powerful especially coming from the woman he loves, the mother of his child. Men view these outbursts differently than women do. I know that you perceive yourself to be the victim here, but your DH seems to be suffering a lot. You may not be swinging punches, but there is some types of mental abuse that leaves scars. Instead of finding excuses for your own behavior, you need to find ways to mend the relationship with your DH. If you can't say anything nice, then....

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Really it's stuff like I need more sleep and I hate where we live and miss DC and things like that.  It's not really directed at him personally and I've never called him names or things like that.  I think his bigger problem is that we're living like roommates and he takes that personally instead of seeing it as a season in life like I finally did.
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