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[quote=Anonymous]I understand what both of you are saying, and I know that a lot of ppl are just saying what they believe to be the issue. The reason I keep saying that it isn't that he's naturally that way isn't just me being stubborn or unwilling to hear different perspectives, I can understand the point being made, but it's being made based on the assumption that I tried to change him and/or he was just trying to please me. I get how that would be the first thought, but it's not what happened. We've both always been very open & honest with each other. He talked to me back when this all first came up & a lot of times he'd say he just wasn't sure how to explain why he feared I'd feel disrespected even though I said I wouldn't, or why it was hard to trust with this even though any previous undesirable results didn't involve me. The point is that we've always talked about everything openly but suddenly he was shutting me out of this area. So then I wonder why he's doing that, why he won't talk to me anymore. I was the one who experienced him in bed before and after and the difference was that he wasn't holding back anymore. When you know someone so intimately you know when they're holding back. He let go of his inhibitions. It wasn't in the beginning, so it can't have just been being caught up in something new, and if I hadn't complained, withheld sex, or left after two years he had no reason to feel threatened or pressured. I am looking for advice or suggestions of what might have caused the change, aside from any attempt from me to change him or pressure him since I keep telling (general) you that isn't what's happening. People seem bent on believing it is though and basing their feedback on that. [/quote]

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