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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Imagine you are a runner. You run an 8 minute mile. When you meet your husband he is running a 12 minute mile. You each enjoy and naturally gravitate towards your own pace.

When you get together, husband, who would love to keep up with you and has fantasized about being faster, works to improve his pace.  When he improves, you two can happily run together. But, it is always a much bigger effort for him, even though he enjoys it, because this is not his normal rate. It takes tremendous effort and determination for him to keep a pace that you run at effortlessly.

When he is unable to give his full attention to training, it is easy to slip back to the pace that suits him better. Then, it takes a lot of hard work to get back up to your speed. Getting back up there is made even harder by the fact that he is perfectly satisfied running at his own pace, other than the fact that it bores you.

You underestimate the amount if energy it takes to keep up with you even though he is happy when he gets there. He can be just as happy with less effort doing it his own way.

tl;dr: you have a compatibility problem, even though he was able to be what you needed for a time.[/quote]

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