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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Your husband is engaged in a power struggle with a kid that he cannot win, and that's always a failing proposition for a parent. He cannot force your son to eat the lunches he packs, he doesn't have that kind of control, and to respond with a temper tantrum that he just won't pack lunch at all is ridiculous and childish. If he doesn't want to pack PB&J every day (which would be my solution), he could try sitting down with your son and brainstorming a list of two or three lunch options that your son agrees he will eat. Kid gets the variety dad wants, and hopefully there isn't so much wasted food to make dad crazy.[/quote]

+1. I get your DH's point of view - he's packing these great lunches; where's the gratitude!? But, you're dealing with a kid who gets to exercise the final decision over what he will actually eat, and he wants an unfussy, sugary lunch like most of his friends probably have. Your DH can be right but also wrong, which I think he is here. Right that he's packing a great lunch; wrong to have an emotional power struggle over what to pack a little kid for lunch. He can't win. For his own sake, he needs to let go, but I'm not sure how you can help him do that. Just tell him in soothing tones that you know he's 100% right, but just try a trial period of PBJs and see what happens.[/quote]

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