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[quote=Anonymous]OP did you really NEVER have a connection with your husband? I don't understand this. How could you have willingly gotten married and pregnant on purpose? I suspect that maybe there was at least some kind of connection, but you are having selective memory because this other man is clouding your judgement.

You owe it to your spouse and to your daughter to get counseling. I don't think you realize how much damage this will do to her. You want to dump your husband for "true love"?

Snap out of it seriously. This is really a case of the "grass is greener" on the other side. I think you need to talk with some single Mom's to realize just what you would be signing up for.

Here is what I see happening:

You dump your husband
You wait for "other man" to leave his wife and it never happens.
Meanwhile you live in a measly condo by yourself, only see your daughter part of the time - who by the way will grown up resenting you, and you realize raising a child with your ex is not as easy and harmonious as you thought it would be.
You realize you aren't young and in your prime anymore and any man you are interested in is more interested in women 10 years younger without the excess baggage.
Your ex-husband gets remarried (because why wouldn't he if he is such a great dad, person etc)
And then, only then do you realize the colossal mistake you made.
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