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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I agree with your counselor. From a practical point of view, you never tell unless some reason forces you to (like you discover you contracted an STD). This isn't about my conscience. If I don't know something I have no reason to take action. Once I know, I will never get it out of my head. When I am 80 I'll probably be thinking about it. There is no way that normal can be restored even if you're forgiven. I was cheated on by my first wife. No thought required, I divorced her. The harm has been done. Don't go breaking up other marriages by telling his wife that you banged her husband. Something about a lot of women needing to confess such crap. In this area, take a cue from men- take it to the grave.[/quote]

+1.

Seriously, what the hell did you accomplish by telling your DH that you cheated?  You were selfish (but human) for cheating but really freaking selfish for unloading your guilt on him.  Just go back to your marriage and be a good wife.  Sheesh, you are a drama queen.  I agree with your counselor.[/quote]

Trolls, cheaters, or cheating trolls.  Both of you.[/quote]

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