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[quote=Anonymous][quote]I know counseling and therapy would be helpful. He will not go. [b]I haven't gotten my courage up for individual counseling[/b]. I know that sounds dumb and weak. I know I sound pretty pathetic in my posts. There is a lot of mutual resentments between us. I firmly believe we could get past it and work things out. I have zero desire to start over, attempt to coparent, etc. He wants the opportunity to have the sex life I've described above. [/quote]

I'm sorry you're in such a dark place.  You really do need to start seeing an individual counselor even if, by some miracle, your husband agreed to joint counseling.  I know from experience how difficult it is to get past this point in your relationship.  You need to talk with someone about it who is objective and skilled in relationships.  It's really not that hard once you get started, it's the initiation that's hard.  I also agree with the PP that you need to consult with an attorney.  You need to prepare for the chance you'll get divorced.  Hugs. 
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