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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Are you making it worthwhile for her when it does happen?

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Yup. I love going down on her. My biggest challenge in that regard is calibrating when "make it a quickie" means "let's have a pleasant moment & it doesn't always have to be a marathon" versus when it means "once she's in the mood, make it worth her while." Having a quickie would be easier if we were having sex more than once every two weeks.

I ask her what she likes and make sure to tell her that if she wants to try something, I'm game for whatever. But she's not very communicative. The 50 Shades period got her to open up enough about liking a little spanking or hair pulling. I tried pushing further to see if there was something she'd like that she wasn't comfortable talking about; but when I tried lightly grabbing her throat and being told that was too "rapey" - that scared me off pushing boundaries too much.[/quote]

Is she having orgasms?  I appreciate the efforts you're putting forth, and she should be clear about what she likes.  But if she's not enjoying it enough, it doesn't matter how you look[/quote]

She's having orgasms about 1/2 - 2/3 of the time. Which, given that are only having sex about twice a month means one or two orgasms a month. Having sex within 10 days of her period usually results in an orgasm. Sex 15-20 days after her period usually doesn't. [/quote]

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