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OP- You need to find a way to get your husband to be the parent of his four children and not over focus on the two younger ones you have together.  How his relationship is with his older children will have a direct impact on his relationship with your kids together, too.  Do not think that once the younger one is in college that going off into the sunset of Arizona or wherever will make his two older sons disappear.   Stay where it is best for your stepsons to be close to their father and try an encourage him to establish what now should be an easier and gradually more adult relationship in terms of being able to find commonality of interests in sports,  attending school events, looking at colleges etc. I assume he is going to be willing to provide a fair support for college, too.  Moving with elementary or middle school aged children will not be impossible.  I am hopeful that you have posted to get encouragement to do what in your heart you know is the right thing.  DH needs to remember that he is a DAD to four and not just two children.[/quote]

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