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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Both my parents and DH's parents somehow feel that it is okay to book a week or more at staying at our house and then informing us after plans have been made, airfare purchased, pet care arranged, etc. I would never impose myself that way and feel like any more than 2-3 nights is overstaying a welcome. That is WAAAAAYYYY TOO LONG to spend with someone(s) I enjoy the company of much less my parents or in-laws. Why do they assume that this is okay? Ugh, I am dreading next week!!![/quote]

Ugh my in-laws do this too and just come when is convenient for them and my husband says ok without checking with me. I dread the visit because they are so rude to me and ignore me and only talk to the grandkids and my husband even when I am sitting there. They are Jewish and are very prejudiced against marrying outside of the faith. I get anxiety for weeks before they arrive and my husband and I bicker the entire time behind closed doors because his mother says the rudest put downs ever. Good luck! [/quote]

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