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[quote=Anonymous]"He packed me a lunch for this morning, for instance -- with vegetables and dip, leftovers from last night, my daily vitamins, a paper towel, and a piece of my favorite candy for dessert. How thoughtful and lovely is that? So thoughtful. Only I would rather have had 5 minutes of conversation with him rather than him spend 5 minutes making me my lunch."

OP, first of all, with regard to the "love languages" idea, while this may be HIS way of showing love, the idea is that he needs to show love to you in a way that YOU need, i.e. conversation, sex, sharing emotions, not doing things for you.  (And the same is true for you showing him love.)

I also sense that he's doing these things to try to hold on to you, because he knows you're unhappy but its too scary for him to engage in emotional (and probably sexual) intimacy.

I think you need to let go of wondering what he is or is not doing on the internet . . . . your focusing should be on making clear to him that you need him work on your relationship by understanding and then providing you what you need.[/quote]

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