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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think I asked all the right questions but I was not smart enough to make conclusions from his answers and my observations. [/quote]
Similar. I asked alot of the right questions but ignored the day to day observations that conflicted with our discussions. In hindsight there were signs I should have acknowledged. Also, earlier in the marriage once the discrepancy was out in the open if you will I should have called DW on it.  I also sometimes wonder if alot of DW want to get married and wait until a ring is on their finger. I know the DWs here will flame me but I believe it is true. Young girls grow up playing with dolls and talking about husband and wife and their wedding. I think we program them unfairly and they are driven to catch a mate. I married in mid/late twenties. Should have waited to be more mature and probably should have had more relationships. So that I knew when to call bullshit on certain behaviors. Water over the dam at this point...[/quote]

Sometimes waiting doesn't help. I asked my then fiance if we were going to have more sex once we lived together, and he said of course. Should have realized that a guy who doesn't get married until he's 33 and had years between relationships is not all that motivated by sex.[/quote]

Disagree as a guy.  I didn't have a ton of sexual experiences before getting married around 30 but I have an incredibly active sex life.  For me, I have to really car about someone before having sex.  I like a certain kind of woman and held out to meet these types of dates.[/quote]

Did you have an incredibly active sex life with your now wife as soon as you started having sex, right from the beginning, with no noticeable dropoff in the first three or four years?[/quote]

As soon as we started dating we literally could have done it three times a day every day of the week.  We are now at around 3-4 times/week and going on almost ten years together.  [/quote]

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