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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It was very inappropriate to the nanny for him to look her up and down. That is so wrong of him, even before considering that he's married.[/quote]

Yes, this. He's her potential employer. It was a very classless thing to do to say the least.

Moreover, don't listen to the poster who told you to ramp things up in the bedroom. You don't need the extra stress of keeping your husband "entertained" so he doesn't stray, with a new baby and all. It's his responsibility not to stray, not yours to take on extra effort, esp. in such a situation. He made a vow to you, for heaven's sake. There's no such thing as a "fair weather" marriage.

If the nanny is really good, I'd hire her regardless of looks, after giving a very stern talk to my husband and warning that if there's any more checking out or anything inappropriate, he'll be the one bearing the consequences, not the lady. Then again, if I were that nanny, I'd have to be seriously hard pressed to accept a position where one of my potential employers things it's fine to check me out. I wouldn't feel safe.[/quote]

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