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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, your feelings are valid. Feeling excluded by family feels powerfully sad. But that's where your anger is really coming from: the sadness. Blowing up at them will likely be ineffective and muddy this drama further. Work it out with safe people: your H, therapist, trusted friends. Give the issues time to settle. When you feel like you understand things better, address it with them, or don't, but understand that people who pull this kind of sh*t are pretty tone-deaf in general. They may get it eventually (and feel justifiably bad) but for now, focus on self-care. It's often the only way out of enmeshed family drama.[/quote] +1000 Thanks for the update OP. Now that the actual sibling vacation has passed, you can start to feel more "zen" about it now. Hopefully, you can still participate in some family activities. You are learning what a lot of family members already practice--don't vacation with each other. [/quote]
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