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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I see alot of accusatory responses on here, calling the OP various names (shitty, jerk, selfish, ass, etc), making excuses for the wife, and basically telling OP to just suck it up and stay miserable in a sexless marriage.
OP, please ignore all those responses!!! 
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That's not what is being said. People are telling him to make some reasonable attempt at fixing his marriage before walking away. [/quote]

+1.  From the perspective of a child of divorce, please take the high ground and don't have an affair.  As other's have said, get a professional involved in helping both of you repair the relationship and if that doesn't work, divorce knowing that you really tried to fix the marriage.  I'm definitely not saying you should stay in a sexless marriage by any means.  I think lots of people are saying there is a reason, it could be medical, it could be performance, it could be the emotional connection is gone, it could be exhaustion, we have no idea and neither does OP.   If OP had written either that wife refused to go to counseling to help work on the relationship or had gone and refused to make any changes, then I think there would have been different advice.[/quote]

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