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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]36yo divorced mom with shared custody of 2 kids. Petite and slim (5'4" 120 lbs). Well educated. Enjoys travel. [/quote]

well I have no idea if you're still reading this OP, but as with anything here on DCUM, the idiots always seem to chime in and derail/distract.

There are plenty of good guys out there who'd be interested in someone like you.  As a single dad with good career and living what I consider to be a great life, the things I would care about are whether you have a good/healthy co-parenting relationship with your ex, whether your kids are thriving and well adjusted, whether you are emotionally in a good place (i.e., completely healed from the divorce) and are living a great life.  Being in shape is important, but I wouldn't want to date a woman who spends every minute working out and obsesses over every bite of food. I'd want a woman who has her own interests - and hopefully they would be compatible with my own.  I would hope that we would have similar views on important life and parenting issues - I could not care if we were on opposite sides of the political spectrum - though that could bring some fireworks into relationship!

If all you had was a good body but nothing else, yeah, sure you'd be nice to look at but I wouldn't date you.  If we only chatted about typical BS stuff on a first date, there would be no second date.  So think about the real things you bring to the table - and if truly are in a good place and living a great life, that will be part of your natural 'being' and it will attract the right guys, believe me.

~divorced dad[/quote]

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