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[quote=Anonymous]Your husband takes you for granted. Many people want variety, would love to sleep with someone different, but make the choice to give that up if their partner wants monogamy. Why do they do that? Because they value their partner and don't want to lose them and what they have. Your husband doesn't value you or put you and your feelings ahead of his sexual interests. He's got condoms and an open-for-business attitude, so it sounds like he's been out there already.

The ball is in your court. You could ask him to go to a counseling session with you as you figure out how to deal with this. He's convinced himself what he's doing is fine, but a counselor could, as a neutral person, tell him your desire to be monogamous is pretty natural for marriage.

Whether you stay or go, his decision seems to be made. Personally, I would go, especially if there's enough money for you and the kids to be okay. Let him find out if he misses you. Or do you want to be with someone who doesn't value you and consider your feelings? [/quote]

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