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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Oh, I don't know.  Maybe it is too Pollyanna of a view but he could be telling the truth.  You know him best, is he usually curious about things, is it in his nature to research or check out new ideas?  Honestly, I may download it now just to see what it is.  That said, you should download it & see if he has a profile set up.[/quote]

If you want to know what it is, google it and you'll find out.  No need to actually download the app.  Hell just read the description in the App Store.  You'll see it is a dating app. And why would a married (Or in a LTR) man/woman be curious about a dating app?[/quote]

Nonsense.  I'm a dude, very happily married, no intention/desire to cheat and - especially after I read about it on the internet - I want to check out Tinder.  I want to see what the people on there look like, and what their profiles look like.  I've heard that you will definitely see people you know, married and single.  I'm curious.

I did not download and install it, precisely because I'm afraid it would be taken the wrong way and because I don't lock my phone, I let my wife (though she seldom does) pick up my phone and go through it whenever she wants.  I'd download it to check it out if I knew I could completely and reliably delete the entire app, but I don't really trust that I can.  I'm also afraid someone I know would see me and tell her.

But that doesn't mean I'm not curious...just not (completely) stupid.[/quote]

If you were truly only curious, couldn't you just tell her?

I set up an Ashley Madison account out of curiosity, but didn't hide it from my spouse.

Did you actually tell your spouse that you set up this account, and what it is for, in case they didn't know? I ask because I've dealt with a spouse who would do things "out of curiosity," say they're not hiding it from me, but would actually just omit to tell me, much as they omitted to mention many objectionable things they did.
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I can't remember. I just asked him and he says he doesn't think I did. In any case, he was in the same room as me as I created the account, so I wasn't hiding anything. It was an account w a made up email and password and fake profile details, so I never logged in more than that one time.

I understand your concerns about your spouse who only claimed to do things out of curiosity once caught, though. I'm not like that and my spouse knows. [/quote]

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