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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Any indication that he maybe has already strayed? Or that someone else may have reignited his drive?[/quote]

Yes, this. He's setting you up for failure and giving himself an excuse to leave for his new plaything. His sex drive didn't kick in overnight with no reason. [/quote]

This is a dumb response. His sex drive never waned. He's stuck with a dead fish. Probably tired of spanking it to porn out of necessity.  [b]If he were happy with a side piece, there'd be no threat[/b]. [/quote]

I am very conservative in my beliefs, but seriously, if one spouse has a much lower sex drive than the other, what is wrong with allowing them to have a lover outside the marriage as long as that lover is not a threat to the marriage ending?  My friends and family would be shocked if they knew I felt this way, but you only live once and if expressing yourself sexually with another person is of importance, why should that person be denied?[/quote]

+1[/quote]

I agree, I'm a very low drive wife.  I really could care less if I ever have sex.  However, when my husband initiates, I never say no.  But I never initiate.  I am ok with him having sex with other women as long as it it just sex, and it works for us.  He tells me when he does it, and it's not a big deal to me.  I don't think men were really built to be monogamous.  Other than that, he's a great dad and husband.  I think people make too much of a big deal about monogamy. [/quote]

It's easy when you don't love your husband sexually. I can't believe you're okay with him telling you about it. You don't ever get jealous? You never want to have sex with anyone?  How old are you? Have you always been this way?[/quote]

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