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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am not married so I do not know what is the "norm" when it comes to married sex, but what bothers me here is that your husband is basically handling this all the wrong way.

He is giving you an ultimatum, saying he will go looking for sex outside the marriage if you do not have more sex w/him which is in a sense, going against his marital vows to you. It seems like he is manipulating you w/a power trip + this is not going to solve the problem. In fact, it may have the opposite effect on things, it may even make the situation much worse.

What needs to be addressed here is why you are not willing to have more intimate relations w/your spouse. There is something going on w/you deep down, whether it be emotional or physical, I strongly suggest you seek outside assistance to determine just what could be making you feel this way.

Your husband should be patient as well as supportive of you as you try to figure out what exactly is bothering you now.

Instead he is playing mind games w/your emotions and making it all about him.

Perhaps the problem lies within your home. Perhaps it is your husband. Maybe you just do not like him as a person anymore (who could blame you?!) and that is carrying into the bedroom.....[/quote]

Not necessarily.  My husband is the lower drive one. He simply doesn't want sex as much as I do.  Sometimes it really is just as simple as that.[/quote]

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