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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Help!

Seriously, I'm in a group of 12 women - doctors, pharmacists, lawyers, etc. and we can't find any men! We get hit on by married men all the time. Where do we find good men?[/quote]

OP, as a man here, let me first apologize for the few rude male trolls who feel the need to insult you for no apparent reason.

Having lived in several big cities, DC included, the cold reality is that the dating scene drastically changes at about the time women and men hit their early 30s.  I know about two dozen very eligible single women and only one single male in their early to mid-30s.  Almost all of the "good" males are taken, and by that I mean the ones with equal education, earning potential, good looks, etc.  If you were really happy marrying blue collar types, you probably wouldn't have trouble finding a man.

Men around your age who go to bars are there to pick up based on looks, and the brutal reality, all things being equal, the mid-20s girls are going to get more attention than the mid-30s girls.  So I would get online, approach the shy types who tend to stay single longer, and adjust expectations of what the dating market looks like for people in their 30s.  Start going to sports bars and other places where the ratio skews male and go in smaller groups - large groups are intimidating to approach.  [/quote]

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