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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The DH divorcing his DW upthread, but [b]I do not understand the house issue here.   Why does the DH want the house?[/b]  In my case, I was willing to have DW stay in the current house until last kid graduates HS, then either DW buys out my equity or it is sold and the proceeds split 50/50. That seems a rather fair arrangement to me.

Now, I am in VA and the accumulation of marital assets stop as of date of separation.  VA requires a one year wait.

I had to take the "high road" in my divorce b/c DW was nasty and conniving, hiding assets, etc. I actually sued for divorce on grounds of cruelty b/c she was abusive.  
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It sounds like the OP's husband wants it all, basically. He wants out of the marriage, all the retirement money, all the money that was supposed to be supporting the family (except $1500/month!), the kids, free full-time care for the kids from OP, time to play sports in the evening, and maybe his old girlfriend too. As another PP put it, I'd laugh if it wasn't so horrible. The nerve.

You'll get through this, OP, with a little help from your friends (and a qualified attorney who will advocate for you and your children). Good luck.[/quote]

^^And bc the house is their biggest asset, obviously. He wants it all.[/quote]

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