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[quote=Anonymous]My brother-in-law and sister sound a lot like the two of you. BIL tried to present the collaborative divorce angle to get my sister to agree to a very bad deal. Luckily they live in a state that requires a year-long separation. She agreed to a terrible temporary separation agreement for that year, but by the end of the year it had become clear even to her that he was dealing in bad faith. She eventually got a lawyer and got a better deal, although I still don't think she advocated for herself as much as she should. You just cannot afford to let emotions drive this process. Lawyers have seen a lot of different fact patterns and they can help you figure out what will be best. You would not do open heart surgery on yourself, you would go to a reputable surgeon. This is the same. You need to hire a professional who has experience with divorce to handle the technical details. It will cost money, but it will be worth it in the long run. [/quote]
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