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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Stepmom here with kids who live cross country.  Don't regret your marriage based off of the kids.  Your husband needs to parent the kids his way in your home and not allow the behaviors.  Its hard when he hasn't been allowed to be hands on but he needs to step up with mom in terms of visitation schedule and such.  I don't think the two sets of kids should be treated the same.  They are two different sets of parents and grandparents.  Everything is not always going to be equal.  Too bad they share a room - they are only there every other weekend.  It would be different if they were there full-time but if you cannot afford a bigger house, then they share.  Its ok kids share rooms.  It is only a few more years... it goes by quicker than you realize.  It seemed like forever till my husband's kids turned 18... oh, the joy of child support ending as well as his ex's terror.  Things are much better for us with all that stress gone.  Do your best, treat them well (its ok not to love them in the same way you love your kids) and hang in there.[/quote]

Best. Advice. Ever. [/quote]

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