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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Did you ever consider that your husband has his own issues he's dealing with and a beach vacation isn't something he wants to do?

[b]Perhaps he has an undiagnosed anxiety disorder. I did for a long time and would pull stunts like the OP describes at the last minute because I just could bring myself to go someplace. It would cause me great distress.[/b]

Also, get out of the mentality that because you want to do something your husband also wants to do it. Chances are he'd rather be working. [/quote]
This is OP I think this is it. That is why I have not killed him yet. I would just go without him. It is not what I would prefer but he is free not to come. I asked him repeatedly if he doesn't want to go? But it still drives me crazy. I do not want to take two cars because then he would just leave.[/quote]

Anxiety is real. I've been dealing with it all my life and didn't know it until 3 years ago. I finally got it under some control but I still have trouble saying no upfront and I sometimes back out last minute when I'm backed against a wall. It is torture. Especially when you can't really articulate what's happening and people get frustrated.

If this sort of behavior crops up in other areas I would suggest you talk to him about his stress and anxiety levels. We men are very bad at discussing or exploring these things.[/quote]

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