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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We've been together for 10 years, married for five. Despite the fact that she only had one serious boyfriend before me and doesn't have much experience, she is an excellent flirt to me. She is very good at making me feel special. I told her two months ago I wanted to see a movie that's coming out next week - she lined up a babysitter this morning and made reservations at a restaurant I like for after the movie. She does things like this ALL the time. Her face lights up when she sees me - huge ego boost. When I had a big presentation at work she not only made me breakfast that morning (getting up an hour earlier than she normally does) but she taught the 3 yr old a cheer and they performed it for me on my way out the door. A freaking cheer! When I was taking my bar exam she arranged for me to get a massage at the start of it and the end of it.

I would never cheat on her. I hit the jackpot.[/quote]

She sounds great, just make sure you do things for her too and let her know how much you appreciate her.[/quote]

Ex-wife here and I agree.  I'm the type like your DW.  If my ex had ever appreciated my efforts or reacted in such a sweet, positive way as you must...things would have been very different.  There were tons of other issues, but I'm a giver and a doer.  I wanted to make him happy...just didn't work.

As for the original question -- despite being miserable for many years, I can honestly say the thought never even crossed my mind to cheat.  In all seriousness.  We were sexless at times, he was verbally abusive and it sucked for a long time.  I still thought there was hope up until the last year.  And I was in my marriage and committed until we separated (by that point, we were over and there was never any talk of reconciliation).[/quote]

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