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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Faithful woman here.  Married 22 years. Never considered cheating even when relationship was kind of sucky.  Husband cheated, though, so I left.

[b]I think that your moral code is a stronger factor in whether you cheat than any specific actions or absence of action from your spouse[/b].[/quote]

This is what I was going to say. But PP said it better.

You either value an honest and respectful approach to other humans, or you don't.[/quote]

That is true and you also have to know yourself.  I've been married to DW for 26 yrs. this Aug., faithful.  May have thought about a lark and DW has even suggested a discrete one would be OK for me though I know that's not true (we have been completely out of sync physically for some time and it bugs the hell out of me).  But I know me, given the risks of STDs and other sideshow issues, the physical side is not enough for me to stray.  If I ever do, I will know that we are done but I still want to be with DW, though she knows that status quo cannot go on indefinitely so she, too, has to decide what she wants (I have no indication DW has been unfaithful and I am pretty sure I'd know....).

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That's so great. DH is not hot for my bod. Actually, he wasn't when we got married (knew each other for  4 years before marriage).  I should have realized then that it was not sustainable.

p.s. part of equation is that after knowing DW for 34 yrs I am still totally hot for her bod ...  :shock: [/quote][/quote]

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