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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I think it depends on the people in the marriage and what is/isn't important to them. If DH cheated, I'd forgive him, unless the cheating was of an utterly egregious nature (i.e., he was secretly married to someone else and had 5 kids with them or something equally insane). Ultimately, to me, sexual fidelity is less important than the friendship, rapport and caring I have with him, the fun and the intellectual stimulation, the lifestyle compatibility, even the good sex etc. Not to mention what a good parent he is to our children. He does not know that because there is no need to encourage anything, but that is how I feel (and no, I would not cheat on him myself). But if fidelity is very important to you, then cheating may be a deal breaker and such a betrayal of trust that you cannot get over it, then you should walk away. Having no marriage is better than a toxic and miserable one.[/quote]
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