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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I got married at 28---15 years ago.  Definitely maid of honor would still be my older sister--but I really wanted my childhood BFF extradonaire/parnter-in-crime (met at 4 and still incredibly close in our 40s) to be a co-one.  She is as close to me as my sister and an only child.

I would have still had my college buddy and I had a roommate at the time who was very close--but we've lost touch a bit---I probably would have replaced her with another college great buddy that I see a few times a year.

So--not many changes at all.

However, Godparents are another story entirely.  I felt like I had to choose family so my brother and DH's brother are our boys Godfathers.  But--my BIL and DH's cousin would have been much better picks.  They see the boys on a regular basis and are much more involved in their lives (and better role models:)).  I feel bad I didn't realize BIL at the time because I think he really wanted the job.[/quote]

You know you can change your will, right?[/quote]

Well--will and godparents are two separate issues.  Our will does appoint my sister and her husband as legal guardians if something happens to both DH and I.  It's awlways been that way.  Godparent is a religious thing---pointless in the eyes of the law.[/quote]

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