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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, I am sorry. This sounds very sad and I can't believe some PPs are calling you ungrateful. If it were me I would let my bio Dad know I am not ready to meet and ask him to send me the details he thinks I am missing in a FB message. This way you protect yourself from not meeting him in-person (which seems like a very bad idea) but you will get the info you must feel you are missing out on.

Re: your mom, just because you don't have a great relationship does not mean you are not grateful for her.[b] Counseling with her to figure this out together can help you both heal. Good luck![/b][/quote]

OP here: Thank you for your kind words. Unfortunately, she hasn't been willing to see a counselor with me. I saw one two years ago when I was having some issues and felt like a lot of them stemmed from the way she treated me growing up and my counselor tried to get her to come in but she wouldn't. She doesn't think that she did anything. I really think that she has blocked out all of the years of her emotionally and physically abusing me and thinks that I had a great childhood to her. Anytime I would try and bring up the things she did to me as a child/young adult, she starts with her whole speech about how I had a very great childhood and got to go to private schools and on vacations and always got whatever I wanted, etc. She doesn't realize that sure that may be true, but that doesn't mean I forgot all the times she told me she hated me, would throw a water bottle at my head, etc. [/quote]

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