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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My husband and I raised three  with both of working full time. I loved my job and found it fulfilling. Now I am retired and am helping my kids so they can work and raise their kids.  My daughters have told me they are glad I worked because I was a role model for them. Beware of the trap of having everything in your life revolve around the kids. its hard to believe but they will grow up and you will need to be on your own. Take a look at the thread about older moms calling their grown kids and annoying them because they have nothing to say but to complain.  [/quote]

+1  It is a very individual decision, but be aware a lot of things could change that may make you regret giving up your job: husband could get sick, you could get divorced, or you could find that staying at home is not as fulfilling as you imagined. I personally believe it is preferable for women to have the ability to support themselves and their children. Also working full time means more money for college and retirement.  it is very difficult to restart a career after a long absence.  My parents help out with my kids a lot, so I am very fortunate, and I definitely don't think my kids feel neglected. They do take care of themselves after school until my husband, parents or I get home to drive them to practice or other activities.  They do their home work, watch TV, practice musical instruments or play video-games.  One started a snow shoveling/grass cutting business with a friend ( He is in 8th grade) and is saving money for college!  I do notice they seem more  mature, independent, and self-directed, then some of their friends with SAHMs.[/quote]

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