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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm reading with interest as just got back from date 4 (if you count a first meet) and no physical contact. He's been married twice. 
I might try a kiss hello next time I see him. [/quote]

NO physical contact? At all? Not even a hug or something? I've been on probably 4 (consecutive, with the same man) dates without a kiss, but never, ever more than 2 without any physical contact. [/quote]

Yeah, no contact. Hope I'm not giving off some no contact signal. Does seem kind of odd. Like him though so don't really want to walk away. [/quote]

I'm not going to ask the obvious 'are you sure he sees what you are doing as dating?' question because it seems asinine and your posts read like you are socially aware and have good judgement, but I think I'd be asking myself that question if I was in your situation, and I consider myself socially aware with good judgement. How interested does he seem aside from the physical - does he keep asking you out, or are you the one initiating all the time?

I think if it was me I would have hugged him by now. In fact, I'm sure I would have. I have initiated hugs at the end of dates where I knew I might want to keep seeing the guy but wasn't feeling it enough yet to have him kiss me. If you like him, go for the hug goodbye or kiss hello. It's not so aggressive that it should put him off (dude's been married twice you said, so it's not like it's his first time being around women), and if he shuts it down, at least you have your answer and aren't wasting any more time. [/quote]

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