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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This is not rational. I don't understand why people are trying to rationalize it. [/quote]

Maybe I'm rationalizing but I don't see it as revenge.  I would not lie/deceive as cheating spouse did.  I would not do it to expressly hurt spouse. In the world where we may still stay together,  I would always wonder if cheating spouse knew he could cheat yet I would remain faithful and not divorce him, what is to stop them him from doing it again.  I see it more of a pride thing than revenge.  I have no interest in chasing someone that doesn't want to stay and while I would prefer monogamy if spouse is not being monogamous I agree with 10:05 that I'm free to do as I please.  I have to admit this is a trigger point for me because my mom would not divorce my dad because she did not believe in divorce etc while it was clear dad had other women.  Eventually they ended up divorcing because my dad filed but I felt like he got to make all the decisions regarding the relationship because my mom refused to do anything.[/quote]

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I agree with everything you said.[/quote]

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