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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I know that you aren't asking advice about this, but as someone who has worked at home for 8 years, working at home with a baby is completely unrealistic.  You are going to have to pay for daycare, and you should budget for it.  Yes, it is ridiculously expensive and your standard of living may be reduced dramatically, but it is that or one of you stay at home.  A college student who is willing to be a "mother's helper" will be as expensive as daycare.[/quote]

I didn't ask but it was on my mind and I'm glad you posted it. Downtown daycares are so costly and have waiting lists hundreds long. In-home part-time nannies cost even more.

I'm becoming more and more freaked out about how we're going to afford this baby. It's not like we're in terrible shape, but we're not wealthy. In a good year, our household income is about $140,000. What can we afford? It's become clear that we will not be able to pay a mortgage on the kind of house (small but in or close to the city) we hoped to buy. We live cheaply now in a small one-bedroom condo with tiny closets and no laundry in the unit. I could probably earn an extra $500/month renting this place out.[/quote]

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