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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm 16:12. [b] I just think that for some people, one incidence of cheating will not be a deal-breaker[/b].  Some people will look at the history of their relationship and decide that given the 100 other good things about it, the husband (or wife) having one transgression is something they can get over.  Some of my friends have made this decision, and I support them in whatever they decide.

I think sometimes cheating is a symptom of things that are off in the marriage.  While the ideal way to deal with that stuff would be to talk about it, get counseling, instead, some people aren't self-aware or emotionally healthy enough to do the ideal thing, and cheat instead.  Not condoning or excusing it, just saying I see how it happens.  (I'm unmarried, and not a cheater.)[/quote]

That's me and I have posted this before.  I would be pissed and hurt if my wife cheated as a one time deal, even under difficult circumstances.  But I could never condone her falling in love with someone else and repeatedly seeing them.  But I would not cheat, just get divorced.  And it would take me a long, long time if ever that I would get involved with a new woman.[/quote]

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