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Reply to "Three kids under 4 and I think we are headed for divorce"
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[quote=Anonymous]OP, you may have to give him an ultimatum counseling or he needs to leave. I won't say counseling completely repaired my relationship but it did make things better. When you're in the thick of raising kids its so easy to forget that you also have to nurture your relationship otherwise you risk becoming like roomates that easily annoy one another. I would not quit your job. It can be difficult to find employment these days and if you end up getting divorced it will put you in a real bind. Not only that but I know plenty of SAHMs with crappy relationships and if you quit I bet your DH would complain about how he works all day and it should be your job to care for the kids 100%. But I do agree with other posts that it's time to outsource more. I recently hired a cleaning service and it's really taken a lot of stress off of me and Dh. I really believe a clean house makes DH a more relaxed guy so it's worth it.[/quote]
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