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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]^^^ I really don't understand this bitterness.  Yes, your husband changed his stance, but maybe having the first was harder than he anticipated.  Do you really want to have a kid with someone who does not want to be a parent?  Do you think your life will be better as a divorced, single parent?   Sometimes, you need to grateful for what you have and maximize that experience instead spending so much of your energy thinking of what could have been.  [/quote]
You don't understand it because perhaps your dreams haven't been abruptly shattered by someone who is supposed to make you happy, and promised you he wanted the same things.  Yes, go ahead and betray your husband and then tell him to suck it up and be grateful to even be married.  That's an awesome recipe.  I am grateful for my healthy son but I am not grateful to my husband. If he told me before marriage he only wanted one and done, I would not have married him.  He is flushing my last fertile years down the toilet and you are telling me I have to suck it up and be grateful he even exists.  Forgive me if this doesn't appeal.

And yes, actually, if we had a second child together and got divorced, it wouldn't be so bad. I'd have my children. Husbands come and go. Kids are forever.[/quote]

So "accidentally" get pregnant. Is that an option?[/quote]

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