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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If only we weren't anonymous we could start a support group.  I have been teetering on the edge for four years now, you're lucky your child is nearly done with high school, mine's just starting.  At least I know I could get another paying job and half the equity in our home would set me up in a reasonable 2-bedroom somewhere, but the havoc on my child is what's stopping me.

We're married in name only at this point and I wonder that my husband wouldn't be frustrated enough to leave on his own but somehow it's always the wife who initiates divorce.  I'm thinking maybe his satisfaction at work (very successful) makes the crappy home life less of an issue for him.[/quote]

I could have written this except my kids are middle and elementary school.
I recently had and ended an emotional affair with a guy from high school I had a crush on then and is also currently unhappy in his 15 year marriage. The 2+ year affair gave me a spring in my step as we IM-ed and video chatted during the day as he lived 1500 miles away.  
I ended it when I visited him the second time on a girls weekend and felt he saw me as someone with a vagina and really didn't care about me as a person.   I know I suck considering what I doing to my DH.  
I'm 20 years into my marriage and think about taking "my own space" somewhere else but here once 2nd DC goes off to college.   [/quote]

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