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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So let's dig into this a little deeper. Married women seem to like to go dancing more than married men. They like it because it's "fun."

What about it is fun for a married woman that isn't fun for a married man? In particular, dancing in public -- these women could obviously get together in a room, turn on some music, and dance. But that's not fun, or at least not as fun. What is the source of the additional punch that's present in a club that's not present in a private setting?

My guess is that it has something to do with the plausibly deniable sexual tension in the room, but I'm open to other suggestions. [/quote]

--A good DJ (your iPod mix isn't nearly as good, trust)

--Getting out of the house. If you have a get-together, someone has to host, so there would always be one person who has to stay in her house and set up/clean up.

--Just being in a public setting can be refreshing

--Nice clubs have good cocktails

You tried to be clever and you failed. Bye.

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Ditto to everything PP said. Plus you get to dress up however you want, knowing that no one really cares what you're wearing. That may be your only chance to wear that amazing pair of shoes/dress/top that you loved and bought but have nowhere else to wear it to. I don't enjoy parties that I host as much as when I'm a guest for the reasons PP stated.

It all boils down to how well do you know and trust your wife and her friends. A woman who knows the boundaries, going with similar friends, even if dressed a bit sexy but not slutty and not getting drunk while out, should not be a cause for concern. You should be more worried about her coworker that she has to take business trips with or work late on projects with.[/quote]

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