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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here and I know that in the end it is my sister's choice. I guess we are just two VERY different people. She married young at 22 to the first person she fell in love with. I didn't agree with that as well and told her she needs to live some more and experience more before marrying, but she said she knew he was the one. I asked her again the night before her wedding if she had any doubts and she said no that she had none. They appear to be best friends and I'm really hoping everything works out for her. She worked and supported him while he was going to school and interning so maybe she feels like it's her turn to be supported. I just don't understand why she is choosing to be a house wife. She is smarter than that and better than that. She already put off going back to school this summer, whats going to stop her from not going back in the fall too. [/quote]

Doctors tend to lack social skills IMO. Why are you giving her shit the night before her wedding! Lay off! Sounds like there is a history of you meddling.

What does your sister think of your relationship?[/quote]

OP here and my sister and I have a pretty good relationship. We've had our ups and downs but have always come back together. We shared a hotel room the night before her wedding and we were talking about a lot of different things and yes I asked her if she doubted her decision even a little bit and she answered no with complete certainty. To another pp, no I am not married and in all honesty I wish I have found someone I didn't have doubts about. I have been dating someone for over a year now and I still have doubts if he is the one. My sister was engaged after they dated for only a year and a half and married after a year long engagement. So I accept that maybe I should look at her relationship that seems really great and try to figure out what it has that my past relationships and possibly current relationship is missing. That being said, in my OP I never said I didn't think she had a good marriage, I voiced my concerns about her decision to quit her job and not actively look for another one. Even if she does go back to school, what is she going to tell future employers about this big gap on her resume? Relationships don't always last and I don't want her to be left with nothing if something does happen.     [/quote]

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